Yesterday, April 15th 2009 at 5:25pm I gave birth to my son 16 weeks premature. He passed at 9:00pm.
I miss him.
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04/16/2009 at 16:05
I’m so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you ~
04/16/2009 at 16:25
DD said come over and here I am.
Nobody has words for a loss like this, people will try but nothing will come close to helping. Some people may ignore it or expect you to hide it, don’t let them diminish this for you because they don’t know how to deal. This is devastating and we have your back.
I’m sorry this awful loss has happened to you and your family.
Take care of yourself.
04/16/2009 at 17:18
I’m so sorry for your loss. So very very sorry.
04/16/2009 at 17:26
I’m so so sorry, this is just the worst thing that can happen. Let us know if there is anything we can do.
It's just me, Dawn.
04/16/2009 at 18:00
I finally had a chance to come here personally. I kept running through my head the things I could say, and I just have nothing that can even come close to touching upon how devastated you and your husband must be. Just know you’re in my thoughts, and yes, if there’s anything I or we can do, you just need to ask.
04/16/2009 at 19:13
I’m so sorry for the hurt the pain the unfairness of losing your little boy. Thinking of you and your beautiful boy.
04/16/2009 at 19:46
I’m so sorry for the loss of your son. I wish there was something I could say to make it better.
I am so very, very sorry for the loss of your son. How absolutely devastating for your family. Thinking of all of you.
04/16/2009 at 19:52
I’m so sorry.
04/16/2009 at 20:07
There are no words. Thinking of you and your family.
04/16/2009 at 20:11
Oh Mrs Finn, I am so, so sorry.
04/16/2009 at 20:14
I am so very sorry for your loss. Please, accept my deepest sympathies.
04/16/2009 at 20:35
I am very sorry for your loss.
04/16/2009 at 21:41
I am sorry for your loss. Hugs.
04/16/2009 at 22:19
I am so, so very sorry for the dreadful loss of your son. My heart goes out to you and your husband. Your family is in my thoughts and my prayers.
04/16/2009 at 23:05
There are no words. I am so so very sorry,
Not On Fire
04/17/2009 at 03:08
I am sorry for you loss.
04/17/2009 at 08:17
I am so incredibly sorry. My heart is with you right now.
04/17/2009 at 08:49
DD told me to come here, so I did.
I am so very sorry for your loss. Much love to you and your husband.
04/17/2009 at 09:17
I always do what DD tells me to, so here I am.
I am so sorry for your loss. I will hold you and your family in my prayers.
04/17/2009 at 09:19
Here from Lost and Found, I am so sorry for the loss of your son.
04/17/2009 at 09:25
I am so very sorry – here from Lost and Found.
04/17/2009 at 09:29
Mrs. Finn, I am so terribly sorry for the loss of your son. My heart aches for any parent who has to endure the lifetime of pain associated with losing a child. I lost my son, Myles, last year at 26 days of age. Myles was also born prematurely (14 wks). The grief journey is difficult, scary, and quite lonely. The early days are the worst, so please lean on us and look to us for guidance. I will keep you, your husband, and your “little trooper” in my thoughts. I wish you peace and comfort as you begin the healing process.
04/17/2009 at 09:37
Mrs. Finn, I’m sorry. We lost our son a year and a bit ago at the same gestation.
I don’t have any good words for you, there’s nothing I can say that will make this better or easier.
All of us lost baby mum’s abide, we sit in silence, holding hands and knowing this is painful and terrible.
Sending hugs and abiding.
04/17/2009 at 09:40
Ms. Finn I am so very sorry for your loss.
04/17/2009 at 09:55
So very sorry… You will be in my thoughts
04/17/2009 at 10:02
Oh, god. Of course your miss him. We miss him with you.
So sorry to hear this.
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04/17/2009 at 10:20
Here from LFCA. I am SO very sorry for the loss of your son. You will be in my thoughts.
04/17/2009 at 10:47
Abiding with you, in this darkness. I’m so very sorry for your loss.
From LCFA. -Tally
04/17/2009 at 10:48
I am so sorry. I will be thinking of all of you.
04/17/2009 at 10:54
Also here from LFCA to let you know that I’m so so sorry and will be thinking about you and your whole family.
04/17/2009 at 11:01
My heart breaks for your loss. You and your son are in my thoughts.
04/17/2009 at 11:15
here from LFCA you are in my thoughts and prayers
04/17/2009 at 12:14
Here from L&F. I’m so sorry for your loss.
04/17/2009 at 12:15
I came over from LFCA and I am so very, very sorry for your loss.
04/17/2009 at 12:19
I came over from the LFCA and just wanted to let you know how sorry I am for your loss. I will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
04/17/2009 at 12:35
I can’t imagine. I’m so sorry. There are no words.
04/17/2009 at 13:33
Here from LFCA to tell you how so very sorry I am for your loss…….
04/17/2009 at 14:33
Coming from LFCA, I am so sorry for your loss. I wish you and your family comfort and peace.
04/17/2009 at 14:43
I am so very sorry for your loss.
04/17/2009 at 17:36
Words are not enough. Sending you love.
So sorry for your loss.
04/17/2009 at 19:27
I am just so very sorry.
04/17/2009 at 20:12
So very sorry and thinking of you and your famliy. Here from LFCA.
04/17/2009 at 20:45
I am so, so very sorry. Thoughts are with you, as meager as that is.
04/17/2009 at 22:11
I’m so sorry about the premature birth and death of your beautiful baby boy. This will be the darkest time in your life for a long time. Our baby girl died too soon, in utero at 20.5weeks and she was born dead at 21 weeks. It is a nightmare that will take a long, long time to recover from. In the beginning, for the first 6 months, I was so alone and isolated. I was even suicidal. I hope you can contact me or anyone in your real life if you need support or just someone to talk to, to vent to. The grief is just unimaginable. I wish I knew your little one’s name. I am sure he was beautiful in every way.
My thoughts are with you and your family during this horrible, horrible time. I wish that things were different.
Lots of hugs,
04/17/2009 at 22:43
Oh hun…I am so incredibly sorry for your great loss. There are no words that can take the hurt away, but please know that this ‘community’ is great at giving support when you need it.
I lost twin girls at 19.5 weeks. Without the blogging community, I don’t know where I would be. I hope you too can find this type of support in the days and weeks ahead.
One step, one breath at a time.
Please let me know if there’s anything I can do.
04/18/2009 at 03:15
I’m so very sorry for your loss.
Good Egg Hunting
04/18/2009 at 07:05
I know there are no good words I can say to you but just know that we are all thinking of you. I am so very sorry, and wish you peace and comfort as you work through your grief.
04/18/2009 at 11:46
So sorry for your heartbreaking loss.
04/18/2009 at 14:54
Here from Lost and Found…my heart aches for you. So very, very sorry!
04/18/2009 at 22:45
I am so sorry. What a heartbreaking loss.
04/19/2009 at 00:33
So sorry about the loss. Shall pray for you….
04/19/2009 at 01:39
I am so sorry for your loss.
04/19/2009 at 18:58
i KNOW that you are just devastated right now. i have been down that road twice and can tell you that somehow you will get through this. for now be selfish and hang on to those that offer you support. i am just so sorry you have lost your precious boy.
04/19/2009 at 21:19
I’m so very sorry. My heart breaks for you and your baby.
04/20/2009 at 03:30
Sorry is never enough,but I am, very, very much so 😦
04/20/2009 at 22:33
Many hugs and tons of love.
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05/04/2009 at 09:31
Hi, good post. I have been thinking about this issue,so thanks for writing. I will certainly be coming back to your site.
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